‘But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly
poison.’ James 3:8
So, let’s say it different!
‘The tongue is an uncontrolled
and untamed beast: it is a loose-cannon bent on violence, loaded with venom to
inflict pain and death.’
A ‘loose cannon’ refers to the
days of wooden warships which used cannons as their primary weapon. Because the
recoil was so great when firing them, they had to be tied very securely to the
deck with ropes, or else they could inflict great damage on the ship as well as
the crew.
The apostle James had something
to say about the tongue. He said that we can steer a powerful horse with just a
bit and bridle, yet we cannot control our tongues. Before we even know it, this
little terrier lashes out without any pre-thought and spews out all manner of
evil words in response to any given situation.
We drive around in our cars as
though we were invincible and untouchable, but when someone cuts us up, or we
see somebody on the road acting unusually, the tongue goes into overdrive,
cursing and ridiculing, bad-naming and jeering at the other person.
Worse still, when someone
disagrees with us or causes us some offense, this little devil in our mouths
casts poison into the room and aims its venom in whatever direction suits it
best. And before you even know it, that tongue has done more damage in a few
seconds than a bully at school might do in five years.
It cares not what the outcome may
be, nor the damage it inflicts upon the hearers; and it speaks from the heart,
‘for out of what is really in the heart the mouth speaks.’ (Matthew 12:34)
So, we try to hide from others what we are really like deep down inside, but suddenly our words give us away!
James throws up the questions,
“Who can control it? Who can tame it?”
Death and life are in the tongue. Our words can be sharper that the terrorist’s knife, or they
can be the healing ointment of a kind physician. They can be the vicious poison
that destroys a man’s spirit and renders him despondent, or they can be the
very words that lift a soul from despair and hopelessness.
Oh that we might think before we
open our mouths and give vent to our anger, or release hurting and unkind words
on another creation of God. As we wish people would do to us, let us do to them
also. (Luke 6:31)
We may feel justified and
satisfied with the use of this weapon against another person, but mark
carefully what (Proverbs 18:21) says: ‘Death and life are in the power of the
tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit of it.’
The poison of the human tongue
(unlike that of the snake) actually inflicts evil upon the person using it. Our
words are both life and death to ourselves. If we persist in lashing out (just
because we can), then our own lives will become full of the same bitterness and
nastiness that will actually affect the way we think, the way we behave, and even the
way we look.
The root cause, the control
centre, the internal hub from where all this comes is the heart. God says that
he will give us a new heart. ‘A new heart also will I give you, and a new
spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart (that bad
attitude and hardness of heart) out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart
of flesh (a heart of grace, compassion, and love).’ (Ezekiel 36:26)
Oh for a heart to praise my God!
A heart from sin set free;
A heart that always feels the
blood
So freely shed for me.
A heart resigned, submissive,
meek;
My great Redeemer’s throne,
Where only Christ is heard to
speak;
Where Jesus reigns alone.
These words are from the eighteenth century hymn-writer Charles Wesley.
Pilgrim Warrior